Wednesday, June 27, 2007

The Secret of Us


The Secret of Us
Roxanne Henke

*****(5/5)


Laura and Donnie have been married for 23 years ( that means they were married in the wonderful year I was born- 1983!) and their 21 year old daughter Stasha ( real name Anastasia- now you can breath a sigh of relief that they did not name their child Stasha). Stasha is engaged to be married. The book alternates between all three as they each maneuver through, life, work and marriage. Laura is sick and tired of being sick and tired of Donnie putting his work first and is beginning to relive her dreams of being an artist. Donnie lives and breathes for his business, he has dreams making his ad agency even bigger, but at what cost. Stasha is excited- she has just graduated from college and is engaged to a great guy, however she just hopes to find a job. Once they are married, though she learns how big a job marriage is. The story is great and I loved how in intertwined between all the characters. You got to see things evolve fully and you got to see two sides of the marriage coin. Newlyweds, who typically go in not expecting all the work and a marriage that has so far, stood the test of time AND people willing to work to keep standing. I really enjoyed this book as an honest description of marriage.


Throughout the book, especially during Laura's section, there are “divine thoughts (or guidance)” so to speak. At first that annoyed me, but I grew to appreciate the “thoughts” as the story went on. Those thoughts added so much to the book and if you are a believer, than you will defiantly understand and recognize these moments. They make this and the characters appear even more realistic.


The Secret of Us is a beautiful, heartfelt, realistic view of marriage, relationships, life and the power of God to build and ( to help us) keep all of it together.



What Was She Thinking: Notes on a Scandal?


What Was She Thinking: Notes on a Scandal?
Zoë Heller


I did this backward, and saw the movie first, mostly because I did not know that there was a book. I netflixed the movie and loved it. I think Judi Dench was excellent and the Academy Award was well deserved. She played Barbra, but she added her own uniqueness to it. Usually I don’t like the movie version of books, but this one I enjoyed both almost equally (I’m still a book geek, so I liked the book a little bit better.)


I probably would have never picked up this book without seeing the movie and it is sad that I could have missed out on such a great book. The premise of the story is about a young woman who has an affair with her much younger male student. I’m kind of over that whole scenario with all the double-standards and media attention about that sort of thing but this book is not completely about that. The narrator is Barbara, a much older teacher at St. George’s (the novel is set in London) who takes an interest in the new, younger, prettier Bathsheba (Sheba) Hart. The form a friendship and Barbara takes us on a time line from the moment Sheba arrives, to the beginning of their friendship and everything until when the affair is discovered and the aftermath. The book alternates between the past and present (after the affair is discovered). The best part of the book is that in answers the question in the title- we know exaclty what Sheba was thinking. I think that the answer could only be told be an outsider and someone like Barbara. If it was told by Sheba herself, it would loose the umph of the story/scandal and we would all hate Sheba, but through Barbara- it is a masterpiece.


Barbara is one of my favorite narrators. Her tongue-in-cheek humor and dry sarcasm had me laughing out loud at times and her honesty and writing was superb. This book is worth 5 gold stars.


The movie is good (well of course - that is why it was nominated and won Academy Awards) - but my advice is read the book before the movie. Either way, the book is great.

Friday, June 22, 2007

Street Lit

So this article was published last January in the NYT and it got me thinking and agreeing. On a side note, I also got to meet the wife of the author of this article at a book club meeting last July.

I actually stopped reading a lot of contemporary African American literature because of the trash that started getting put out there. The last few books I read were full of mistakes and grammatical errors, stories and characters that didn’t make sense and generally full of nonsense. To me these books glorified the street life, the drugs, the hustling, instead of portraying an accurate view of it.

One of my favorite books is probably the grandmother of street fiction- “The Coldest Winter Ever”. I remember reading it and enjoying the fact that this seedy underworld was portrayed in a book. After that I read a few of the newer street lit, before throwing them away in disgust. That being said, I have absolutely no problem with books written about life on the street, about crack, cocaine, pimps and ho’s and what not. I’ve read most of Donald Goines and Iceberg Slim’s books and enjoyed them. The difference is the books were real. They kept it real- telling real stories AND they were well written with coherent story lines and such. Not only was that, the purpose of the aforementioned books was never to glorify, but to tell the story. The characters in Goines' novel were not extolling the glamorous virtues of being pimps, because in actually there is nothing glamorous about watching your back at all times only to usually be murdered in cold blood by a “friend”.

The argument that “as long as people are reading” and that “these books are a gateway world to reading” when you are talking about a certain sublet of the population- teenagers). The ones whose parents are actively involved or those who have seen first hand the true terrors and horrors of street life. Unfortunately, I doubt that it is this kids that are reading these books. The later is probably not interested in reliving past experiences glorified and the former are probably reading more traditional and classic fare, or at least the watchful eyes of parents to point out reality vs. fiction. The kids that are reading these books believe that being a hustler’s wife is glamorous and so is hustling. Never mind that most hustlers over the age of 40 (and their wives) are usually non-existent and the ones that are, have probably had some kind of change of heart (=conversion to Islam, usually in Jail). I also find it unlikely that many of those who read these books will go on to appreciate reading. Why? These books are pure and total drama. It’s like watching a soap opera. After reading books like these, when you pick up something more substantial (meaning not drama filled) - you will probably put it right back down because it doesn’t hold your attention. You are unable to appreciate good books and good writing (unless some college professor takes pity on your soul and works with you on the art of reading- thanks Dr. Lawson) this brings me to my next and final point- which is an argument in itself. These books are just bad writing, bad grammar and many other things I won’t say here in print form and they point the same view that Africans Americans fight in Hollywood- stereotypical.

So I don’t read street-lit, I detest it and hope that it a fad that will go away soon. Although it seems unlikely now, and according to publishers, it is just beginning to take off. So I’ve switched to reading other things. The bad part of it all is that decent African American writers are not getting there due- especially in book stores, where this trash dominates the shelves.

*Regarding “ The Coldest Winter Ever”, I read this at age 14 ( and 15,16), my goal in the next few months is to re-read it again as an adult and form an opinion at this age- 10 years later.

There a few street-lit books I actually recommend:

“The Coldest Winter Ever”

Anything by Donald Goines

White Lines- Tracey Brown

And that is where my list ends. I will not list others I’ve read and thrown away (literally- in the recycling bin they went). ers

* This is a rant about street-lit- I have an entire other rant about sex-lit (?), which also seems to be growing on the shelves.

Thursday, June 21, 2007

Flies on the Butter


Flies on the Butter

Denise Hildreth
***** ( 5/5)

The first thing I have to say about this book is a note to the publishers. Please do not put realistic looking flies on book covers. Had they been actually on the butter- that’s would have worked, but just randomly placed… well that invites people to interrupt you to tell you that there is a fly on your book.


Denise Hildrith's latest is a break from her Savannah from Savannah series (which I review the first two here and here). Rose Fletcher is on a thirty something lobbyist from Mullins, South Carolina. As she is on her way back home, she preps herself to deal with her family, particularly her mother, whom she hasn’t seen in ten years and to mull over the mess her life is and the rift between her and her husband. Told alternating in Flashbacks between her childhood growing up in the south and her current anxiety driving car trip, complete with “perfect” strangers who give her a little guidance and lots of blessings as she goes on her way.


I knew I would enjoy this book, don’t ask me how but I did. Denise writes with such feeling that you can understand exactly where Rose is and how she got there. I could feel her loss and her frustration at being out of control. I also enjoyed the nature of the book- each chapter alternating between her childhood and the present and I loved the “strangers” at the end of each “present” chapter. Of course I loved the southern feel on this book. In fact, I even went in search of some good ole boiled peanuts for myself ( man, how I missed those when we used to live overseas). The only thing that bothered me was that I didn’t feel we got the full story on what happened, what exactly it was that made Rose run. There was a lot of leading up to, some foreshadowing but the resulting story/ discovery lacked punch, kind of like the air going out of a balloon really fast. Denise writing is very touching and she was able to deal with some heavy subjects without making it feel to preachy. Her words felt the words coming from you favorite aunt or big momma, or Mamaw- soothing, soul stirring and just right. Aside from that, it was a great, touching story about whether or not you really can go home again.


*In the reviews I read (Publishers & Booklist also on Amazon.com), there was some criticism about contradictions (a child lobbyist- not wanting to have children, driving instead of flying ECT). I felt that those contradictions are what make Rose and what makes her so lost. Everyone is a contradiction in their own way and when you are on the run from your past or your demons or yourself- you usually ARE a big contradiction. Just think back to the last time you were confused, scared and running.

Monday, June 18, 2007

too much didactic theological discussion with evangelism

Body of A Girl


Body of a Girl

Leah Stewart

**** ( 4.3/5)

When a young woman is found dead (body of a girl) in the middle of a Memphis summer, what starts out as usual for crime reporter Olivia Dale, but somewhere there is more to this girl and Olive sates out to find out what. However the investigation into Allison Avery soon becomes a self investigation into Olive’s life.


In two reviews, I’ve seen this book is listed as a thriller which in my opinion it is far from. There is a mystery and a good one at that. Stewart is very good at crafting mysteries and stories, but a thriller this is not. It’s a very good book, a short read and interesting story. I can proudly say I haven’t read this story line before. I think a lot of female heroines (not all) fall between Kinsey Millhone and Stephanie Plum and Olivia Dale was neither, which I enjoyed ( basically this isn’t chick-lit or a full blown mystery, but somewhere perfectly in between). At times, I wondered why Olivia was so into this story and I never really figured out why, and many times I wanted to shake her because she did some stupid things in search of the truth, even though that’s the only way you really ever find answers or the truth. In the end Olivia redeems her story- and the story of the young woman.


A quick read, recommended. The subject matter and the story is a little dark (i.e. this is not a beach read) but it’s a wonderful compelling story nonetheless.


Life, Liberty & The Pursuit of Happiness


Life, Libby & The Pursuit of Happiness

Lydia Hope

**** ( 4.5/5)


Libby Marshall thought everything would come together when she received the promotion at work that she was promised 5 years ago. However, a corporate merger changes and all that and Libby is demoted to an administrative assistant. Her demotion is just the beginning of crazy things to come and suddenly Libby’s life is a big mystery, with her former boss missing and a huge secret which might be the key to her future career. Libby begins a journey to start living life in the moment AND trusting her faith.


I really enjoyed this book. Overall Libby was a great character. She wasn’t to cliché or overly anything (whiny, ECT) - just a normal girl who thought she had everything figure out, but didn’t factor in life. The themes ( faith, trusting God,) were not shoved at us but sprinkled into a few key passages that were very moving for Libby (and for me). The message and the passages felt very real, I felt as if it were my aunt giving them to me.


There were a few times, especially at the end that I rolled my eyes as how perfectly everything wrapped up. I know sometimes life is like that, but some things at the end were a bit too perfect, but overall it was a great read.


I highly recommended this cute and inspiring story.

Saturday, June 16, 2007

June


This is a record breaking month. I don’t think I’ve read so many books in a long time. Things in my life are not going so well at the moment, so I am using reading to escape….

So far I’ve read about 12 books this months and it’s just halfway through! Here is a sneak peek at upcoming reviews to be posted/ books I’ve recently finished.

Body of a Girl – Leah Stewart

Life, Libby and the Pursuit of Happiness

Flies on Butter- Denise Hildreth

Everything I needed to Know About Being A Girl, I Learned from Judy Blume- Meg Cabot, et. Al

My Soul Cries Out- Sheri Lewis

Everybody Say Amen by ReShonda Tate Billingsley


I also have tons of book reviews I’ve written over the years to sort through and decide what to post.

I’m having a hard time about posting negative reviews. I’ve posted a few, but I feel guilty- I always preface a bad review with anything that might have clouded my judgment, but I really mean no harm. I respect all authors out here publishing there work.

Anyway- stay tuned….

Wednesday, June 13, 2007

Maxed Out: Book & Movie Review

Maxed Out: Hard Times, Easy Credit and the Era of Predatory Lenders
James Surlock

Now presenting my first ever movie review ( in addition to the book review).


I actually had the movie on my Netflix queue before I saw the book at B &N. I decided to read the book first and then watch the movie when it was released. I read the book in early May and then watched the documentary last night.


The first thing I have to say is that the book is much better than the documentary, but the main reason I wanted to see the documentary was to put faces to the names and the stories and it didn’t really do that. The documentary gave us glimpses of the people and their stories but was lacking depth. In a sense the book was too.


I’d give the book about 3.5 or 4 stars the movie about 3. I ended
up slow-forwarding through parts of the movie that were didn’t feel relevant (mainly the First USA guys ??? and sometimes even the debt collectors). I was really disappointed to have ANY resolution to the people we met.


At least in the book we got a little more feel for the people involved.


My advice- read the book, skip the movie. The book as a lot more “umph”( even if you are a visual learner, I think you will enjoy the book a little more).

Saturday, June 9, 2007

AThousand Splendid Suns


A Thousand Splendid Suns

Khaled Hosseini

*****( 6/5)



Can I really give a book six stars. Yep- my website, my rules and this one in my opinion deserves six stars. I cannot say how much I loved this book. It’s like The Kite Runner, but from a female perspective. This is a great book. One of the best of 2007 ( which is turning out to be a really great year for books , or for me at least).


In his sophomore novel, Hosseini takes us back to his homeland Afghanistan, beginning briefly in 1959 and takes us to almost present day ( the fall of the Taliban). He tells the story of two women Mariam and Lalia- two women who are drawn together. Told in almost alternating chapters we follow Mariam and Lalia through their respective childhoods and as the meet and are bound together as adult women. Hosseini gives us so much reality in the situation of Afghanistan over the last half a century, from a monarch to Society Rule to the Mujahdeen to the Taliban and briefly on life after the Taliban. He pains such vivid a clear picture that I sometimes felt as if is was with Maraim and Lalia and I felt their bond, their emotions, and their life’s so strong- for a book.


I could probably gush about this book all day but I won’t. I’ll just say that this is one of the top ten books of 2007 and is a must read. I’d also like to say that this book paints the history of Afghanistan in an excellent way, more interesting than say reading a non-fiction book. Between this , The Kite Runner and The Bookseller of Kabul, I feel like I could hold an intelligent ( factual) conversation about Afghanistan or at least am able to understand the culture a little more ( more than my fellow American to say the least). This book completely stops all over that Kabul Beauty School Book if you really want a light into Afghani women.

You HAVE to go get this book.!!!!!

Friday, June 8, 2007

Another Sad Love Song


Another Sad Love Song
LaJill Hunt
**** (4/5)


Since so many of her books are “street lit” I hesitantly picked this book up and was not expecting much, but this was one good book.


JaKoby is a young black man who seemingly has it all, A good job, a MBA, a new benz and great friends, all thats missing is the right woman to spend it with. Burned by love before, he wasn’t expecting much when loves( literally) smashed into his life in the form of Chryslyn Matthews’s uninsured Camry. As JaKoby maneuvers matters of the heart we learn that everything isn’t always what it seems. Will Chrys and JaKoby’s relationship be able to handle the storms of life in the form of crazy exes and live happily ever after?


I really enjoyed this book and finished it in one day. This brings me to the only thing I didn’t like about this book- it was too short( 219 pages- mass market paperback). Ms. Hunt kept everything short and sweet, but I would have liked to get to know JaKoby and Chrys a little more. Each chapter is titled with the name of R & B song- from Luther to Toni, which keeps you in the "love spirit", hoping that Chrys & JaKoby can make it. I enjoyed the drama and suspense that was in the book and the ending is one that can’t be beat- will this be just another sad love song?


Ms. Hunt is a very talented writer and after reading this one, I am curious about some of her other books and will give them a try.

Thursday, June 7, 2007

The Blue Bistro

The Blue Bistro
Elin Hilderbrand

***** ( 5/5)

Aaah- what can me more relaxing then an Elin Hilderbrand novel, sunny skies and a deck chair- not much.



The Blue Bistro introduces us to, Adreinne Dealey, a 28 year old woman who is good a running away. After loosing her boyfriend and live saving in Aspen, she decides to head to Nantucket to get away. She ends up getting a job at the Blue Bistro, the most coveted restaurant in town and immediately get caught up in its part owner- Thatcher. Unfortunately this is the Blue Bistro’s last season and she sets out to find out the reason and to define the “friendship/ relationship" between Thatch and the other owner- recluse chef Fiona. What she finds is a lot more than she bargained for but she soon land you can’t run away from love- it will always find you.




I am a big fan of Hilderbrand; I love the Nantucket locations of all her books and would love to see these beaches for myself. Aside from the great imagery this book will make you hungry. In between the descriptions of the menu at the bistro, the orders called and the food that was described in each “family meal” I was salivating. I probably liked this book because she put three of my favorite things- love, food and the beach together and it came out to be a great story.




This novel was more romance than the previous Hilderbrand titles( The Beach Club, Nantucket Nights, Summer People) I’d read, but I enjoyed it just the same and would definitley recommend this to be in your beach bag this summer.





*I like this cover a lot better than the first one.

Monday, June 4, 2007

6 month Mark





Well- the year half over at this point. Today I am an embarking on a six month progress report of my life. The grade I give myself is a D-, but this blog isn't about how my life sucks or has sucked for the past 2 years ( another milestone).

I like milestones and so I will take this day to mark " Book Milestones". Even though I have the time, I am not going to give an exact number of pages read, rather I'll give a brief overview of my reading for the first half of 2007:


Books Read: 16

Book Club Books Read:
4
#1-
1
#2-
3

Total Pages:
aprox 4000 pages

Books Re-read vs. New Books. 30 total 16 new

A Few of the notable repeats:
  • Something Borrowed
  • Something Blue
  • The Myth of You and Me
  • Girl Meets God
  • Soul Matters
  • The Untelling
(I'm re-reading a lot of books that I read from 2005 for some reason oh and my Babysitter Club books from childhood as well)


Book on deck:

Best Book so far: White Lines- Tracey Brown

Finishing Touches


Finishing Touches

***** (5/5)

Finishing Touches by Deanna Krizis is a novel that explores something few novels (or at least ones that I have read) have touched. The story begins with twenty nine year old Jesse, and aspiring furniture designer living in L.A., working at mundane, sublime job with no dating prospects, but with her two best friends in tow. When one her best friend Cecile dies unexpectedly in a car crash, Jesse life is turned upside in more ways than one. Besides loosing a best friend, she also begins to Fall in love with her ex- fiancé with.


This book took on the subject of loosing friends. Books deal with loosing family members, husbands, wives and mothers and they deal with loosing friends to cancer, but many times the people in this book seem older. This was book deals with all the trials and tribulations of the twenties themselves AND what happens when you loose a friends. Many times there are no support groups or books on this, and people don’t pay attention to the friends even though the girlfriend bond is one of the strongest bonds in the world. Krisis deals with how everyone, from the ex-fiancé Zach, to the other member of the fabulous threesome, to Zach’s family and finally how Jesse, who has been wandering lost deals with the grief.


I thoroughly enjoyed this books which a book on life, love (lost and found), friendship, grief and growth. I highly recommended this book. Although the back makes this book seem like “light” chick lit- its not and is rather deep and doesn’t come with the requisite happy ending, although the ending is good and happy.


Other suggestion:

The Myth of you and Me- Leah Stewart

Then I Almost Came to the end...


Then We Came to the End
Joshua Ferris

undecided

This books is funny, but hard to read. I could sooo relate to the “office culture “and at times it felt like reading my favorite show “The Office” however, the writing is a little weird and it is hard to keep track of everything, not to mention the “cryptic” titles which made no sense, except to tell you kind of what was going to a happen in the chapter. To be honest I couldn’t really finish this one, but the part I did read was funny. Recommend (kind of). Wish I could have finished it.., I probably will later.


Here is a link to the advert for the book- which makes me want to start reading again.

Kabul Beauty School


Kabul Beauty School-
Deborah Rodriguez

* ( 1/5)

The author Deborah Rodriguez annoyed the hell outta me in the book. Couldn’t finish it. Wasn’t surprised to hear the story about her on NPR about exploiting, setting up and leaving these woman out and the cold, to face death for her greedy actions – and the book isn’t that good. I mean listening to her moan and complain after her (Afghan) husband got his first wife pregnant is rather sickening (it would coincide with her birthday and their anniversary). I mean come on- you married a man with a first wife!!!! WTF!!!


Besides that ( which I could't get over), i just didn't feel anything when I read this book but boredrom and contempt. I see that this book is on the NYT list ( #28) and has good rating from amazon.com- I just don't see how. *Actually- this is America and I when I think of Iraq see how.


Far better is:

The Bookseller of Kabul" or even "The Kite Runner "if you want a legitimate book about Afghan society and culture. Even though KR is fiction it is still better than this. I actually learned a lot from it.( Speaking of which- the author”The Kite Runner’s” new books is awaiting me next week…..)